# Twitter, the Intimacy Machine ![rw-book-cover](https://readwise-assets.s3.amazonaws.com/static/images/article0.00998d930354.png) ## Metadata - Author: [[C. Thi Nguyen]] - Full Title: Twitter, the Intimacy Machine - Category: #articles - URL: https://ravenmagazine.org/magazine/twitter-the-intimacy-machine/ ## Highlights - The frequency of context-destruction is no accident. Twitter rewards high-context speech, and then gives us the perfect tool to decontextualize that speech. Twitter is designed to invite our vulnerability, and then punish it. - All jokes require that the joke-teller and audience share some background knowledge. And that background knowledge needs to be unstated for the joke to work. - Tags: [[jokes]] - When we laugh together, that is a very special occasion. It is already noteworthy that we laugh at all, at anything, and that we laugh all alone. That we do it together is the satisfaction of a deep human longing, the realization of a desperate hope. It is the hope that we are enough like one another to sense one another, to be able to live together. - Twitter, through its brevity, draws out of us acts of vulnerability and intimacy. It forces us to depend on shared background context in order to create richly meaningful tweets. - The heroin-hit joy of connections, on Twitter, depends directly on our having made ourselves actively vulnerable, on our having deliberately flirted with the possibility of misunderstanding.